day 27

I knew this time would come and .... LOL I know you've all been checking back to see "Has Cindy posted a 28 days update?" Ya sure you came to read but you were still wondering .."Would Cindy do any follow up?" LOL..... yes here I am..aaahhh.... welll... doing the update ... following up ....aaaa.. - It went terrible! If I can use that word in this context. Honestly I/we was expecting/envisioning a very different outcome(not going into detail on that). We couldn't do it(that is the challenge) LOL. Ben was sick for at least 14 days, I was sick or otherwise for at least 5 days and the excuses go on. I am not sure if anyone reading this took the challenge or like us planned to take it. Were you able to do it? Or did you end up like us. I figure even though I say terrible, I know we got to talk a lot more about sex and some other personal lessons learned. Not as expected but never would I say it was a waste. But I think you can be assured I won't challenge you to do that again... lol.. Hey but isn't it great that in this day and age we can talk about sex openly in a healthy way.
With your spouse, talk about it and ...dare I say ... make it interesting! .. even if it's not that often.

To my unmarried or teen readers - Sorry, this one wasn't for you but hey when you're married you'll be all the more prepared to be a good spouse, till then keep yourself pure - it's the best thing you can do for your marriage, You future is based on now.

One more good thing that came out of this experience, a friend brought my attention to a site for married Christian women(also useful for husbands) with question about sex and a place to dialog about this topic. I have not surfed the whole site but from what I see from the onset it is bible based and a visually safe site to view for all married Christians but I have to put in this disclaimer that because of the nature of the subject you have to judge for yourself if it is appropriate for you. *added in edit(Some may find some topics uncomfortable to read about--don't read it then)* That said I learned a lot and it made me think and I know we will use this site in out marriage bed.
Wow that was a whole lot said to give you this : Christian Nymphos

If anyone wants to post comments about how it went for you, you are welcome.